A lot of people do this but not every has the gut to accept
they do it or have done it in the past. For me, I am putting it out there that
I’ve done this more than twice and so have many of my friends. Though it is an
obvious mistake we all make in relationships, the alternative seems pretty
impossible and therefore let’s discuss this in truth.
There are countless s*xual transmission diseases out there
and for women like me, we’ve even gotten an extra worry beyond contracting STDs
when you meet a new man—and I am talking about pregnancy.
The truth is, some women worry about getting pregnant more
than the tendency to contract STDs when they meet a new man—especially in the
moment of “extreme h*rnyness”. I am not saying that is right but that is what
happens especially if you so much want the man and you so much wants to be
laid, writes Ellen T on BrutallyUncensored.Com.
I am a level headed woman who is likely not to trust a man
the moment we start dating or start f*cking each other at the beginning of a
relationship or friendship. Most of my friends also start on this note as the
fear of contracting one of the numerous STDs is finely tuned at this stage.
So for the guys I’ve dated and I mean those who are able to
move from the early stage to become long term partners, I start or insist on
condoms—and pride myself with the slogan, if it is not on, it is not in.
I remember dating a guy who did not like condoms and that
made sex an occasional adventure because there was no way I was going to let
someone screw me without any protection when I barely know this person.
In fact most reasonable people will not attempt sleeping
with a man or woman they’ve just met or know little about without a protection.
That is some sort of default expectation or position.
But this is where it gets tricky and scary—yet many of us do
it even though we may claim to be level headed and careful about our sexual
health. I’ve caught myself doing it several times and as I stated, many of my
friends have confessed having done it too.
After being with a person for more than 6 months and having
used multiple condoms—the moment things get serious and you are certain that
this person really loves you or wants to be with you, for some weird reason,
the condom comes off.
Source: Ghanacelebrities.com
